The Signs to Watch for That May Indicate Help at Home Is Needed
The holiday season is a time for family connections, joyful moments, and cherished memories. However, it can also be a time when adult children notice changes in their aging parents’ well-being. Small signs—like Mom’s increased forgetfulness or Dad’s difficulty moving around—can be a sobering reminder that additional help at home may soon be needed.
If you’ve observed changes this holiday season, you’re in good company. Many adult children experience this “holiday reality check” each year. Here are some strategies to help you initiate a caring, constructive conversation:
- Express Your Observations with Empathy: Start by gently sharing your observations. For example, “I’ve noticed a few changes lately, and I just want to make sure you’re doing well.” This approach shows that your concern comes from a place of love and respect, opening the door to a meaningful conversation.
- Plan Together, Not Alone: Encourage your loved one to share their perspective, and work together to develop a plan that respects their needs and preferences. Taking this approach allows them to feel empowered rather than pressured, making it easier to discuss the care options available.
- Evaluate Safety Concerns: Take a look around their home for potential safety hazards. Engage them in a discussion about changes that could improve accessibility and safety, such as installing handrails, rearranging furniture, or adding nightlights. Creating a safer environment can go a long way in supporting their independence.
- Encourage Routine Health Monitoring: A regular medical checkup is essential for aging adults. Offer to assist with scheduling or attend the appointment if they’re comfortable with that. Routine visits help monitor their health and address issues before they become serious, promoting peace of mind for everyone involved.
- Consult Their Doctor if Necessary: If your loved one seems hesitant about your concerns, consider reaching out to their doctor with permission. Sharing your observations with their healthcare provider may give them a fuller picture of their health, which can guide future care decisions.
Remember, these conversations don’t need to resolve everything at once. What matters most is letting your loved one know that you care and that you’re willing to support them every step of the way.
If introducing help at home seems overwhelming, Sterling Care is here to offer guidance and compassionate support. Serving families throughout Stamford, Darien, New Canaan, and nearby communities in lower Fairfield County, our companions and homemakers are always here to help. Reach out to us at 203-532-0500 to learn more about how we can help your family and ensure your loved one’s safety and happiness at home.
